I know that the media has made the relations between older women and younger men a sort of novelty but that is not my experience. The older woman that I dated was 15 years older than me and she was amazing. I loved everything about her. Her smile was enough to brighten my week and dare I say that knowing her made my life better. My experience was great and it wasn’t about all that cougar and cub garbage that you hear about on the internet or on the news. Our relationship was based on mutual attraction, shared interests and respect.
What I Like About Older Women
To me, an older woman isn’t just someone who is older than you. I say this because someone can be chronologically older but emotionally immature. With that said, the thing I love the most about older women is that they have gotten all the foolishness out of them. They know who they are, they know what they want, they are confident with who they are and they are no longer into the silly games that so many younger women play.
Life Makes A Fool Out of Us All
How did you like my catchy title for this section? Life makes a fool out of us all! What I mean is that people who have lived a life, who have had trouble and who have survived it, have a type of wisdom that only comes with experience. I love seeing that in a woman and I love being with someone who simply knows how to handle life with class and grace. With the emotionally mature women that I’ve dated, I never received a late night crazy girl call or an outburst of emotions. The older women that I dated were all graceful women with great poise and class.
I Like The Way They Look
In our youth obsessed and glorifying culture, women are forced to be forever 21. As if society needs women who are partying, gossiping, and engaging in hook up culture like an eternal 21 year old. That isn’t what I want in a woman. I’ve always thought that older women were sexy. Some women age well like a fine wine and there’s no better turn on to me than an older woman who knows how to get the best out of their looks. Someone who can own who they are will always be sexy.
As a younger man who dates older women, my advice to the men and the ladies who want to engage in this type of relationship is to not treat it like some sort of novelty. Treat each other with respect and not with some weirdo type of age induced objectification. Be yourself and go after what you really want. It also makes since to assess why you want a relationship with such a disparity in age. Is it because you want power, a youthful lover or do you want a real relationship.
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Thanks to my friend John for supplying that article! Love Maggie xoxo